Watching Him Grow: Our Little Personality Blossoms
The past two months have been such a beautiful whirlwind filled with milestones, especially as we reach the 2 month old baby milestones. Every single day brings something new to smile about — literally. Our little guy has started smiling back at us, and it’s the sweetest thing ever. When I talk to him, he looks right into my eyes and coos back like he’s answering me in his baby language. Those little moments remind me that even on the hardest days, I’m doing okay as a mom.
It’s amazing how much personality he already has. He’s moving so much more now too. His arms and legs are constantly going, especially during diaper changes. It’s like he’s discovering his body and all the new things it can do. Sometimes he gets so excited he ends up kicking off his blanket or startling himself with his own movements — adorable and funny all at once.
From what I’ve read about typical 2 month old baby milestones, this is exactly the kind of behavior we’re hoping to see. For example, babies at this age often:
- Calm down when spoken to or picked up.
- Look at a face and track movement.
- Move both arms and legs.
Those little kicks and wiggles? They’re part of that normal physical development. The cooing and the smiles? That’s part of the social and language journey for a 2‑month‑old.
Every time he smiles, I feel like we’ve unlocked a new chapter of “our” story — and that feels huge.
The Formula Journey: Finding What Works for His Tummy
Feeding has definitely been one of the biggest challenges so far. When we first switched to a soy‑based formula (Isomil) because of his reflux, I thought we had finally found a fix. For a little while, it seemed to help — the spit‑ups weren’t as bad, and he seemed more comfortable after feedings.
But then, after about two weeks, things changed. He became constipated, going three or sometimes even four days without pooping. I could tell he was uncomfortable, and as a mom, it’s hard not to worry. I tried everything: belly massages, warm baths, bicycle kicks — anything to help him feel better.
During his 2‑month well‑baby visit, his doctor suggested switching back to a sensitive, non‑soy formula. And that’s exactly what we did. It’s been about a week since the switch, and I can already tell it’s helping: his tummy seems more settled, and he’s slowly getting back to a more regular routine.
What I’ve learned: Every baby’s digestive system is different, and finding the right formula really is a process of trial and error. While soy worked for a moment, it turned out not to be the right long‑term fit for him. If you’re facing similar reflux or formula struggles, you’re not alone — and please know you’re doing your best.
The 2‑Month Vaccines: A Hard but Necessary Moment
His 2‑month check‑up was another big milestone. In addition to discussing his formula and growth, we also tackled the first round of vaccines. Watching him cry during those shots was one of the hardest moments for me. I held his tiny hands and tried to comfort him, but I could feel my own tears welling up.
The good news is, he bounced back quickly. Within a day or two, he was back to smiling and cooing like nothing happened. I kept reminding myself these vaccines are helping protect him — not just now, but for the future. Still, every mom knows that helpless feeling when your baby’s in pain, even if it’s only for a few seconds.
On the bright side, we came home with his “milestone” pinned: first official doctor visit, first vaccine round, first formula adjustment. It felt like real parent‑hood in action. And I think that’s worth remembering.
Why I Decided to Co‑Sleep
After weeks of sleepless nights, I made a decision I didn’t think I would — I decided to co‑sleep. I know it’s a sensitive topic, and each family has to choose what’s right for them, but for us, it brought peace of mind. My baby sleeps best when he’s close to me, and honestly, so do I.
Now he sleeps right on my chest and/or next to me most nights, and it’s become part of our peaceful bedtime routine. I make sure everything is safe — no loose blankets or heavy pillows near him — and I stay aware of my position. The bond we’ve built through this has been incredible.
He’s been sleeping 6 to 7 hours straight most nights, usually from around 6:30 or 7 PM to about 1 or 2 AM. Those longer stretches of sleep have made such a difference in my energy, my mood, and even my ability to focus during the day. Sometimes I just lie there and listen to his little breaths, feeling his warmth on my chest, and it’s the most comforting feeling in the world.
I know experts say “safe sleep” and “infant should sleep on back in their own space,” and I took time to research this and talk with our pediatrician. For us, with careful precautions and awareness, co‑sleeping has been a win. I’m sharing this because I hope it might comfort someone else wondering if co‑sleeping could work for them. It’s not for everyone, but it is for us.
What I’ve Learned So Far
The first two months of motherhood have taught me so much. I’ve learned that every baby is different, and there’s no single “right way” to do things. I’ve learned to trust my instincts more and to stop comparing our journey to everyone else’s.
The reflux, the sleepless nights, the tears — all of it has made me stronger. Seeing my son’s first smiles, hearing his little “talks,” and watching him grow a bit more every day is the best reward I could ask for.
I’ve also learned the importance of self‑care. When the baby sleeps (or while he’s in the wrap and napping), I try to rest, even if it’s in short bursts. I remind myself that taking a shower, reading a few pages of a book, or simply breathing deeply counts. Because when I feel a little better, I can be a better mom.
Motherhood is messy, emotional, and exhausting — but it’s also the most beautiful experience I’ve ever had. Watching my baby hit those 2 month old baby milestones has been a reminder: growth doesn’t always come in giant leaps; sometimes it’s in the tiny smiles, the gentle coos, and the longer naps.
The 2 month old baby milestone was a challenge and if you’re reading this and you’re in that early‑baby stage too: you’re doing great. Let yourself off the hook. Celebrate the victories, even tiny ones. And remember: you don’t have to have it all figured out right now. You’re enough. He’s enough. And this moment? It’s just right.
